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The card game for couples

WhoIs? Card Game

The game for couples to find out who’s who.

4.4 from 89 ratings on Amazon

$29.99

Ships from the US. Shipping calculated at checkout.

Read a card. Sit back to back. Raise ME or YOU and see if you agree. 167 questions about who fell first, who’s messier and who’s never on time.

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  • Ships from the US
  • Gift-ready magnetic box
  • Secure checkout

Every box includes 20% off The Couples Contract, for when you’re ready for the bigger talks.

question cards
167
ME and YOU cards
12
players
2 to 12+
minutes a game
30 to 90+
ages, per the box
16+

How to play

Who knows who better? Find out tonight.

Two ways to play. Both end with a winner, and usually a debate.

A couple back to back on velvet chairs, laughing, with WhoIs? cards on the table

A head-to-head for date night at home.

  1. 1

    Make a bet

    Agree on a prize before the first card. The bigger the bet, the better the game.

  2. 2

    Draw 15 cards each

    The younger partner reads first. Beauty before age.

  3. 3

    Read, answer, agree

    Read a card out loud. Your partner says who it describes. If you both agree, they win the card and a point.

  4. 4

    Winner takes date night

    Most points when the cards run out wins date night and the bet. No bet? The winner gets a massage.

House rules, to keep the peace

  • Go with your gut

    First instinct only. Fast answers are the funny ones.

  • Mind the peanut gallery

    Commentary is welcome. Answering for the couple in the spotlight is not.

  • Tied at 25?

    Play a tiebreaker. Keep answering until a couple misses one.

Inside the deck

Read one out loud. Then point.

Six real cards from the deck of 167. Some sweet, some petty, all about the two of you.

  • Who is:

    Better at planning surprises?

    WhoIs?No. 1

  • Who is:

    More likely to talk their way out of a speeding ticket?

    WhoIs?No. 90

  • Who is:

    More likely to burn the house down while cooking dinner?

    WhoIs?No. 55

  • Who is:

    The first one to ask for a bite of someone else’s food?

    WhoIs?No. 151

  • Who is:

    The one that replaces the toilet paper roll?

    WhoIs?No. 62

  • Who is:

    The one getting in trouble tonight for how they answered these questions?

    WhoIs?No. 118

Hand 1 of 3

Heads up: a handful of cards are for grown-ups. These are the PG ones.

What’s in the box

Everything for game night, except the snacks.

  • 167 question cards

    In pink and teal. The color’s just for fun.

  • 12 answer cards

    6 ME and 6 YOU, for group play.

  • How-to-play booklet

    Both ways to play, plus the house rules.

  • 20% off the Contract

    A code card for when you’re ready for the bigger talks.

  • A magnetic box

    Gift-ready, and easy to put back on the shelf.

The open WhoIs? box with pink and teal cards fanned out on marble

Gift-ready

It already looks like a present.

The magnetic box is ready to hand over as is. Bring it to the engagement party, the shower or the anniversary dinner, and let the room pick sides.

  • Two people, or a whole party of couples
  • A winner at the end of every game
  • 20% off The Couples Contract inside
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Game night

Fair warning: it gets loud.

A couple laughing hard during a game of WhoIs?
Who is: the life of the party?
A couple back to back raising pink WhoIs? cards
Who is: more romantic?
A couple laughing over WhoIs? cards, he in a cap holding teal cards
Who is: more competitive?

Photos from our own 2021 game night shoot. Captions are real cards from the deck.

The Couples Contract

Then make it official.

WhoIs? settles who’s messier. The Couples Contract settles who does the dishes. Money, chores, family and the what-ifs: answer together or apart, reveal, agree, then sign.

  • Reveal your answers side by side
  • A signed PDF for both of you
  • Revisit reminders, so it grows with you
Start your contract · $20Get both · $44

Not legally binding. Just honestly useful.

The Couples Contract
Page 8

This agreement is made between Alex and Sam, to be revisited every 6 months.

  1. 3.3 Both parties agree to go on a minimum of 3 dates per month.
  2. 7.6 Take out trash: Sam
  3. 13.4 Rent: even split

Alex

Signature

Sam

Signature

Not legally binding in any capacity. Don’t make this weird.

FAQ

Questions, answered.

How many people can play?
Two to twelve or more. Play head to head as a couple, or get a group of couples together and play couples against couples.
What age is WhoIs? for?
The box says 16+. A few cards in the deck are explicit, so we’d save it for grown-up company.
How long does a game take?
30 to 90+ minutes. A two-player game with 15 cards each moves fast. A group night lasts as long as the snacks do.
Is it only for couples?
It’s made for couples. The group game is played in pairs, so best friends and siblings who know each other well can join in too.
How much is shipping, and how fast is it?
WhoIs? ships from the US. You’ll see the shipping rate and the delivery estimate at checkout, before you pay.
Does it come with The Couples Contract?
Every box includes a card for 20% off the Contract. Or get both together in the Date Night Bundle.