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Christmas gift guide

Christmas gifts for couples they’ll open together.

One gift, two people, and it has to suit both of them. These are the ones we’d give: a card game for the coffee table, a night of good talks, a workbook for nights in, or the lot.

  • WhoIs? and the bundle: order by Monday, December 14 for Christmas delivery. Alaska and Hawaii: by Thursday, December 3.Too late to ship for Christmas: WhoIs? still goes out within 3 business days, but it may arrive after Christmas.WhoIs? ships free anywhere in the US, within 3 business days.
  • The Contract and the Workbook arrive instantly, right up to Christmas morning.
Rows of pink and teal WhoIs? card backs
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To: the two of you

Merry Christmas! Loser does the dishes.

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Our picks

Four gifts made for two.

Full disclosure: we make all four. Here’s who each one is for.

The WhoIs? card game box with pink and teal cards scattered around it
9:41

You’re on the same page.

Signed by Alex & Sam

Your contract PDF is ready

A copy is on its way to both of you.

Revisit reminder

We’ll nudge you both in 6 months.

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For: The couple you know best

A game night and a talk night in one gift. WhoIs? arrives in its magnetic box, ready to wrap or shipped straight to them, and the Contract comes as a gift link you send with your own note.

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One game night, one talk night. Merry Christmas, you two.

See what’s inside
A couple laughing hard during a game of WhoIs?For: Game night, and the couples’ Christmas party

WhoIs? Card Game

$29.99

free US shipping

167 questions about who’s who, from who fell first to who’s the louder snorer. Play as two, or couples against couples, from a magnetic box that already looks like a present.

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For your next game night. Loser does the dishes.

How to play
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Alex & Sam

Your contract

2 sections signed19 to go
  • Core ContractSigned
  • DatesSigned
  • Finances8 of 23
  • MovingNot started
  • What IfsNot started
  • Family and FriendsNot started
For: A couple with a big year ahead

Engaged, moving in or just getting serious? The Contract turns the big talks, from money and chores to family and the what-ifs, into a date night: they answer together or apart, reveal, agree and sign. It isn’t legally binding, and it comes as a gift link that never expires.

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For the big talks before the big year.

See the Contract
A page from Part 1 of the workbook: Guess my answer questions, with pink spaces for Partner A and teal for Partner B
The cover of The Couples Company Workbook, with lines for both partners’ names
A workbook page from Everyday life: a chore chart where you tick who owns each job
For: Nights in, and last-minute shoppers

353 questions for two in a printable workbook, with a date night in every part. The download is yours the minute you check out: print it, wrap it, done.

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Answer apart, then compare. No peeking.

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By couple

Who are you shopping for?

Our pick for each, a few ideas beyond our shop, and a free list from our library to go with it.

The couple who has everything

Their shelves are full. Their calendar has room for a good night in.

Our pickDate Night Bundle · $49

Also good

  • Tickets to a show they’d never book themselves
  • A class they take together: pottery, dancing or cooking

Free with it: 101 date night ideas

The couples’ Christmas party

Couples against couples, back to back, with a host reading the cards. First to 25 points is Relationship Royalty.

Our pickWhoIs? Card Game · $29.99

Also good

  • Matching pajamas for the group photo
  • A cookie decorating kit, couples against couples

Good to know: a few WhoIs? cards are for grown-ups only.

Free with it: Would you rather questions for couples

Last-minute gifts

Too late to ship? These arrive instantly.

No wrapping, no shipping, no waiting. Both are ready the minute you check out, even on Christmas morning.

The Couples Contract, as a gift

$29

  1. 1Tick “This is a gift” in your cart.
  2. 2Right after checkout, you get a gift link and a code.
  3. 3Text it, email it, or write the code in a card. It never expires.

The Couples Company Workbook

$14

The download links are yours the minute you pay. Print it and slip it in an envelope with two pens, or pass the link on to the couple it’s for.

Printable PDF, with an optional 18+ appendix.

Or write them a card with five questions from one of our free question lists. Free, and it still counts.

Shipping and gifting

Good questions, before Christmas.

Shopping for another occasion? Gifts for couples, by occasion.

When do I need to order for Christmas?
WhoIs? and the Date Night Bundle: by Monday, December 14 for delivery by Christmas in the lower 48 states, or by Thursday, December 3 for Alaska and Hawaii. We ship within 3 business days by USPS, and USPS recommends mailing by Thursday, December 17 for delivery before Christmas. Those are its recommended dates, not a guarantee, so sooner is safer. USPS holiday shipping dates
What if I miss the date?
The Contract and the Workbook arrive instantly, even on Christmas Day. WhoIs? still ships within 3 business days; it just may arrive after Christmas.
Can WhoIs? ship straight to them?
Yes. Enter their address at checkout (US only) and the game ships there in its magnetic box, free.
How does the Contract work as a gift?
Add the Contract to your cart and tick “This is a gift”. After checkout you get a gift link and a code to send them however you like. One of them opens it, starts the Contract and invites the other. Don’t open it yourself: opening it starts their Contract.
Can I give the Workbook as a gift?
Yes. The download link comes to you: pass it on to the couple it’s for, and the license goes with it. Or print it and wrap it.
What if they already have it?
Unopened games can come back within 30 days for a full refund, and you cover the return shipping. The Contract and the Workbook have a 30-day refund too. Email hello@thecouplescompany.com and we’ll sort it out.
Is WhoIs? right for a family Christmas?
Most cards are sweet or silly, but a few are for grown-ups only. Perfect for the couples’ party, maybe not for Grandma’s.