The talks you keep putting off, turned into date night.
$20per couple · one time, no subscription
Money, chores, family, moving in and the what-ifs. Answer together or apart, reveal your answers side by side, then agree and sign. It’s more fun than it sounds.
The reveal
How many date nights a month?
Matched on 5 of 6 so far
This agreement is made between Alex and Sam, to be revisited every 6 months.
Alex
Signature
Sam
Signature
Not legally binding in any capacity. Don’t make this weird.
How it works
Five steps, one section at a time. Most of the fun happens in step four.
Together or apart
Some talks are better side by side. Some are better with a little privacy first. Do Dates together and Finances apart, or any mix you like.
TogetherPass the phone, read each clause out loud, and decide as you go.
Great forDates, Vacation, Pets
ApartEach of you answers on your own phone, privately. Nothing shows until you’ve both answered.
Great forFinances, Children, the What Ifs
What’s inside
From the light (date ideas, who takes out the trash) to the big (money, kids, the what-ifs). Each section makes its own date night.
You settle on one answer together.
What kind of relationship this is, what exclusive means to you both, and eight principles to rate and plan for.
What stays between you, what family gets told, and what goes online.
How often, how long, and which of 35 date ideas you both want to try.
How often you check in, where hard talks happen, and your love languages, ranked.
What’s off-limits to post, phone-free times, and DM etiquette.
Evenings and mornings together, and how much time alone each of you needs.
A name on each of 19 chores, from dishes to bills, and what a missed one costs.
Trips per year, the next three you want to take, and who books and pays.
Health habits, checkups, and the scent you love on each other.
Holidays, in-laws, and the friendships that need your time.
Limits, favorites, and nights out without each other.
What it takes to move away for a job, or to move in together.
Who pays for what across 18 kinds of spending, and the goals you’re saving for.
What each of you believes, how you practice, and how you honor each other’s beliefs.
Who owns the pets, who walks them, and whether there’s room for one more.
Private and entirely optional: likes, limits and what you’d like to try.
Each of you answers, and both answers go in.
Five ways a relationship can be shaped. Each of you says what’s for you.
Fifty questions, from playful to very honest.
From losing a job to a zombie apocalypse. Make the plan before you need it.
Money, travel, family and personal goals at 3, 5 and 10 years.
Whether, when, how many, and the kind of parents you each want to be.
A peek inside
Most of it is fill-in-the-blank, so it reads like an agreement and plays like a game. A few clauses from the contract, filled in by our sample couple, Alex and Sam.
3.2A date is a minimum of 3 hours spent alone as a couple, doing something outside both parties’ daily routines.
3.3Both parties agree to go on a minimum of 3 dates per month.
7.4Dishes and kitchen cleanup: Joint
7.6Take out trash: Sam
7.20If these responsibilities are not met, the violating party will owe the other breakfast in bed.
Holidays will be spent with family in the following splits:
18.36What is the very first memory you have of me?
AlexYou, soaked, losing a fight with a tiny umbrella.
SamYou, laughing at my tiny umbrella.
3.3Both parties agree to go on a minimum of ? dates per month.
Pick a number for each of you, then reveal. In the app, you’d each answer on your own phone.
The Couples Contract
get on the same page.
This contract belongs to
Alex
Party A
Sam
Party B
To be revised together every 6 months.
This agreement is made between Alex and Sam, to be revisited every 6 months.
Alex
Signature
Sam
Signature
Not legally binding in any capacity. Don’t make this weird.
When you’re done
Both of you sign, and you get a PDF of everything you agreed, laid out like a real agreement. Print it, frame it, or keep it handy for the next revisit.
Your PDF goes to both of you: every clause you agreed and both signatures, ready to print.
Add a section, reopen one, or change an answer as life changes. Then sign again.
We remind you both. Sit down with it, read it together, and update what’s changed.
The fine print: it’s not legally binding in any capacity. It’s a conversation, in writing, between two people who like each other. Don’t make this weird.
Who it’s for
One contract covers every stage. Start with the sections that fit right now, and come back for the rest as you grow.
Say what exclusive means to each of you, before anyone has to guess.
Start with
Chores, rent and whose couch stays. Settle it before the lease is signed.
Start with
Money, family, kids and the what-ifs, while it all still feels exciting.
Start with
Years in and still curious? See what’s changed since you last talked it through.
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Privacy
This may be the most personal thing you type all year. We treat it that way, and we keep the promise short so we can keep it.
Your answers are encrypted on our servers.
Answering apart? Your partner sees your answers at the reveal, not before.
We never sell your answers or use them to train AI. They stay out of our analytics, too.
Delete your answers, or your whole contract, whenever you like.
Pricing
No subscription and no per-person fees. Everything is included.
Digital · 21 sections · together or apart
$20
per couple, one time
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Love it, or it’s on us. Do your first section. If it isn’t for you, email us within 30 days for a full refund.
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FAQ
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The Couples Contract
Pick one section, pour something nice, and see where you two land. One price covers you both.
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