A printable workbook for couples
Get on the same page.
$14printable PDF, for the two of you
353 questions for two, from your go-to takeout order to where you want to be in ten years. Answer apart, then compare. Print it, or pass the phone.
What’s inside
353 questions, from first impressions to the ten-year plan. Go in any order: some take ten seconds, and some deserve a whole evening.
You, right now36 questions
Comfort food, favorite songs and the perfect Saturday: who you each are today.
Date night: Make the playlist of your relationship
Our story so far27 questions
First impressions, firsts, and the almost-didn’t-happens.
Date night: Recreate your first date
Talk to me38 questions
How you check in, argue, make up and cheer each other on.
Date night: The state-of-the-union dinner
Everyday life40 questions
Chores, bedtimes, the thermostat and whose turn it is.
Date night: The $20 three-course dinner
Money37 questions
Saver or spender, your money stories, and what you’re saving for together.
Date night: The money date
Your people32 questions
Family, friends, holidays and the group chats.
Date night: The story swap dinner
Time and play38 questions
Dates, trips and a bucket list for two.
Date night: Plan the dream trip
Values and what-ifs35 questions
What you believe, what loyalty means, and the what-ifs, fun and real.
Date night: Trade what-ifs
The years ahead30 questions
Where you want to be in three, five and ten years.
Date night: Letters to open in a year
The WhoIs? round40 questions
A rapid-fire round of who’s more likely, straight from our card game.
Date night: Game night, the real one
Plus · 18+ · optional
The Intimacy Appendix27 questions
For adults: what you like, what you don’t and what you might try. It comes as its own PDF, so the workbook itself stays coffee-table safe.
How it works
Write your answer before you hear your partner’s. Matches are worth a high five. Differences are where the good conversations are. Nobody’s grading this.
Each of you writes your own answer in your own color. Matches are worth a high five. Differences are where the good conversations are.
107 questions
Write your answer, then your best guess at your partner’s. Swap, check, and tick the ones you got right. Gloating is allowed.
42 questions
Read it out loud and each circle A or B, no conferring. Point at the same person and it’s a point for the team.
84 questions
Every part ends with a date idea, and a box for what you matched on and what you’ll keep talking about.
10 date nights
Also inside: this or that, rate it, finish the sentence, and a few you answer together, like a chore chart and a three, five and ten year plan.
Take a look inside
US Letter, 66 pages. Partner A writes in the pink spaces and Partner B in the teal, and every part ends with a date night.
Who it’s for
Change any question that doesn’t fit your life, and skip anything that isn’t for you.
Skip the small talk. Find out who fell first and what they’d really do with a free Saturday.
Chores, bedtimes, the thermostat and money, talked through before the boxes are unpacked.
The years-ahead talks: family, money, the what-ifs and where you want to be in ten years.
You know the big stuff. Find out what quietly changed since you last asked.
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167 question cards · 12 answer cards · 2 to 12+ players