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Relationships run on hundreds of small agreements.

Who plans date night. Whose family gets the holidays. Whether “saving money” means skipping takeout. Most of these never get said out loud, until one of them turns into a fight. We make tools that help couples say them early, kindly, and together.

Small agreements
  • Dishes: whoever didn’t cook
  • Who plans date nightUnspoken
  • Sundays: ours, no plans till noon
  • Whose family gets the holidaysUnspoken
  • Phones at dinner: face down
  • What “saving money” meansUnspoken
Unspoken ones turn into resentments. Spoken ones turn into plans.
Patrick Frank, founder of The Couples Company, holding a WhoIs? box
Patrick Frank, founder, in 2021

Where it started

It started with one honest conversation.

Patrick Frank kept noticing the same thing: relationships run on hundreds of small agreements, and they come apart when the expectations behind them go unspoken until they become resentments.

So he tried something unusual. Inside his own relationship, he drafted a full agreement: every expectation written down and talked through, topic by topic.

It worked, just not the way he expected. Putting it all on paper showed the two of them that they weren’t the right match. And because they got there through a guided conversation instead of a slow-burning fight, they parted on good terms.

That agreement became The Couples Contract: the same guided conversation, made for any couple who would rather talk now than fight later.

Our mission

Help couples get on the same page.

Early, kindly, and with a little fun. Not after the fight, and not in a stiff workbook: on the couch, with good questions and a clear outcome you both agreed to. Everything we make, from the Contract to WhoIs? to our free quizzes, is built for two people doing it together.

The short version

From one agreement to a company.

  1. January 2020

    The first contracts sell

    The contract goes on sale, a few dollars a section.

  2. December 2020

    The company is formed

    The Couples Company becomes an LLC.

  3. May 2021

    WhoIs? is printed

    A game for couples: 167 question cards and 12 answer cards in a magnetic box.

  4. September 2021

    The 2021 edition

    The contract grows to 21 sections, from dates and dishes to money, children and the what-ifs.

  5. 2026

    The Contract, rebuilt

    Made for how couples live now: answer together on one phone or apart on two, then reveal, agree and sign.

What we believe

Four things we won’t compromise on.

  • Honest

    No fake reviews, no invented numbers, no fine print. The Contract isn’t legally binding, and we say so up front.

  • Private

    Your answers are a diary, not data. Our quizzes run in your browser and send nothing. Contract answers are encrypted, never sold, and yours to delete.

  • Playful

    Hard topics, light touch. The best conversations happen on the couch, laughing, not across a desk.

  • Not therapy

    We make conversation tools, not treatment. If you’re going through something heavy, a licensed couples therapist is the right call, and we’ll always say so.

What we make

Everything we make is built for two.

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Alex & Sam

Your contract

2 sections signed19 to go
  • Core ContractSigned
  • DatesSigned
  • Finances8 of 23
  • MovingNot started
  • What IfsNot started
  • Family and FriendsNot started

Digital · 21 sections · together or apart

  • Reveal your answers side by side
  • A signed PDF for both of you
  • Revisit reminders, so it grows with you
The WhoIs? card game box with pink and teal cards scattered around it

WhoIs? Card Game

$29.99

plus shipping

167 question cards · 12 answer cards · 2 to 12+ players

4.4 from 89 ratings on Amazon
  • Play as a couple or with a group
  • Crown your Relationship Royalty
  • A magnetic gift box
How should we handle money?
Phones at dinner?
Same page on 6 of 10

Quiz · 10 questions each · one phone

Two minutes to see where you line up on dates, money, chores, family and the future. Private: nothing leaves your browser.

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