The Couples Contract
Money, moving in, family, chores and the what-ifs, turned into the best date night you’ve had in a while. Answer together or apart, reveal, agree, then sign it.
The reveal
How many date nights a month?
Matched on 5 of 6 so far
Start here
Start with the Core Contract and Dates. Two sections, one evening.
Start here
Money, chores and moving, before the lease is signed.
See the moving-in sections
The full contract, plus 58 what-ifs and your 3, 5 and 10-year goals.
See everything inside
Send the Contract with a note, or give WhoIs? in its gift box.
Shop giftsHow it works
21 sections, from date nights and dishes to money, family and the what-ifs. Do one tonight or all of them this year.
Side by side on one screen, or each on your own phone. Nobody sees anything until you’ve both answered.
Matches lock in on their own. Differences become the conversation. Then you both sign, get the PDF, and pick a revisit date.
Together
One phone, side by side
Apart
Your own phones, then reveal
The revealThe reveal
How many date nights a month?
Matched on 5 of 6 so far
What’s inside
Each section is a set of short clauses with blanks you fill in, like “Both parties agree to go on a minimum of ___ dates per month.” Pick the ones that matter to you two right now.
13. Finances
13.2 For expenses split unevenly: Party A pays 60 % / Party B pays 40 %
Alex
Signature
Sam
Signature
Not legally binding in any capacity. Don’t make this weird.
This agreement is made between Alex and Sam, to be revisited every 6 months.
Alex
Signature
Sam
Signature
Not legally binding in any capacity. Don’t make this weird.
The shop
One digital contract for the two of you, and a card game for game night. Both make a great gift.
Alex & Sam
Your contract
$20
per couple
Digital · 21 sections · together or apart
Ships in the US$29.99
plus shipping
167 question cards · 12 answer cards · 2 to 12+ players
4.4 from 89 ratings on Amazon
Save on both
WhoIs? Card Game
Someone reads a card, like “Who was the first to fall in love?”, and you both hold up an answer without looking. Play as a couple for date night, or with friends for a loud one.
Free · two minutes · private
Ten quick questions about the big stuff. One of you answers, pass the phone, no peeking, then see where you match and what’s worth a conversation.
Take the Same Page CheckYour answers never leave your phone.
Sample result
3 of 4 on the same page
Date nights a month
Talk about itMoney
MatchHolidays
MatchKids
CloseYour answers are encrypted on our servers. We never sell them, and you can delete everything any time.
It’s a conversation, in writing. No lawyers, no fine print, and nobody gets sued over the dishes.
Patrick started this after writing an agreement inside his own relationship and seeing what it brought up. Read the story
If your first section doesn’t spark a real conversation, write to us and we’ll refund you.
Free for couples
Free lists, ideas and quizzes. No signup needed.
Gifts
Engagements, showers, weddings, anniversaries and housewarmings. Send the Contract by email with a note, or give WhoIs? in its gift box.
Questions
