How do you attach? A kind look at your habits.
Twenty-two short statements about closeness. You see where you sit, what that can feel like, and a skill you can practice.
22 questions · about 5 minutes
Ready to see how you tend to feel in close relationships?
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Questions and answers
Good to know
1.Is this a diagnosis?
No. It is a snapshot of how you tend to feel in close relationships. Most people sit somewhere between the corners, and where you sit can shift with a good relationship, a hard season or some practice.
2.Does it count toward my Pairbond score?
No. It is for understanding yourself. It never changes your Pairbond Score.
3.Are my answers private?
Yes. The quiz runs in your browser and nothing is sent to us unless you are signed in to Pairbond and choose to save the result to your profile.
4.Do I need to be in a relationship?
No. Pick the wording that fits you right now. If you are on your own, think about past relationships and the people you have dated.
Want the bigger picture? Try the Pairbond couples quiz or how you like to be loved.
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